Wednesday, May 13, 2009

We're 19 weeks!!

We went back to the doctor on April 30th and were accompanied by Tony and Carol. Everything looked GREAT! They are both growing fast - our baby boy weighed 12 ounces and the baby girl weighed 9 ounces. We saw their spines, hearts, brains, stomachs, kidneys, little bones, and even their cerebellums!! All of the measurements were right on track. Although she didn't completely cooperate, we have confirmed baby A is a girl. Here are our latest pictures, first, The Girl:

This is the 3D image of her face. She is looking to your left and her eyes are closed. Tough to see sometimes unless you're watching it happen.




Her little hand:














His face and his little hand:






Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Top Seven Unanswered Questions

These are a few of the questions that, according to their popularity and the frequency they get asked, we should ALREADY have answered:

  1. Do you have names picked out? (maybe, but we're not telling... thanks AV/CB great idea.)
  2. Have you chosen a nursery theme yet?
  3. Think you'll "go natural?"  (note: I said yes, but, as it turns out, I was answering a different question. -SM)
  4. Will you stay home or go back to work?
  5. What will the dogs think? (I think this one is simple: are they food? are they toys? are they leaving soon? Fine, whatever.)
  6. Do you want our (fill in the blank with whatever a baby needs that someone would keep long after babies are no longer babies)?
  7. Are you having any strange cravings?
What am I missing?    -S

Friday, May 8, 2009

Bronchitis

This is an older post that I just failed to post on the blog. I wanted to add it since this is our "journal" for the pregnancy. One of my pregnancy symptoms, carpal tunnel, does not enable me to write very long with a pen anymore. I didn't want to forget this as we look back on the pregnancy down the road. This is from May 6, 2009:

After almost a full week of bronchitis, I am feeling better. My belly has really started poking out and I think it's because they're trying to get away from the cough! Dr. P's office has been great and they've given me medications to help get through this. The biggest challenge has been having a constantly full bladder and coughing all of the time! Even though I haven't felt well, the babies have done their best to keep me focused on the good things. Yesterday at work, I felt my stomach tense up in one spot on my left side, so I rubbed it. As soon as I touched that area, I felt a little body part jerk away as to say "What was that?". I laughed because I was thinking the same thing.

It's crazy how quickly things change because now I feel the babies move all of the time. It feels like bubbles popping sometimes and other times it feels like being "flicked" from the inside. It's incredible!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Grandma Medley

On Saturday, we arrived home from our cruise around 7:00 pm and were at the funeral home by 7:30.  Although we were tired, it was nice to be surrounded by family and friends.  The funeral was Sunday at St. Francis in Loretto, KY.  The weather was perfect and the setting was so serene.  People visited until 3:30 when the mass started.  It was a beautiful service - a true celebration of a life well lived.  Afterward, we returned to Tony and Carol's where we ate, shared memories, and looked at pictures.  We are so sad that Grandma Medley won't get to meet our little ones, but are very thankful that she knew they are on their way.  We hope that we are loved by our children and grandchildren as Grandma Medley is loved by hers.

The All-Boy streak is no more!!

We are as certain as we can be without seeing them in person that we have a baby boy and a baby girl.  This will be the first granddaughter for Becky's parents.  We are super excited and couldn't be happier...that is all of us except my nephews Christopher and Alex.  They way they see it, we've ruined their "all-boy" streak.  They are the only 2 grandsons on their father's side (that's my brother) and there are only boys on their mother's side of the family.  So, when I told Christopher over the phone that he was going to have a girl cousin he yelled "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!" for about 5 minutes and then proceeded to tell me how I've ruined the streak.  He has a way of always making me laugh.  Alex and Christopher are fun to joke around with.  It's hard to believe they're almost 12.  I hope they always like talking to and joking with their Aunt Becky.

Saturday, April 25, 2009

Baby Moon!!

What a wonderful vacation. A big thanks to Shawn and the Edelen clan who took care of Tyson & Rupert while we were gone...it's a huge relief to know they're happy while we're away. We left on April 18th and had absolutely no problems getting to the ships. My feet swelled, but I had a full week to prop them up! We had 2 great couples at our dinner table, Mike & Missy(from Florida) and Mike and Jen (from Boston). We were almost always the last ones to leave the dinning area every night!
We had 3 days at sea and 3 days at ports. Days at sea are great. We usually had breakfast in bed, went to the gym (
I walked on the treadmill while Scott rode a bike), laid by the pool, played bingo (yes, bingo), and went to dinner. It was the life!
Sunday was our first day at sea. I woke up this morning because I was being poked! This is the first time I have felt the babies movement on the outside of my belly. Luckily, they did it again that evening and Scott got to feel it...INCREDIBLE!
Monday, we went to Ocho Rios Jamaica where Scott and I took an excursion on a bamboo raft down the Martha Brae River. Our guide was Greg and he was a wonderful. He taught us how to say "tings" using local dialect. For example "wha guan?" is used for "what's going on?" Of course, Scott picked up on this much more quickly than me and has enjoyed using the phrases. Because of the limestone in the area, the water was a beautiful shade of blue-green. We saw lots of vegetation too - Mimosa trees that were bigger than we'd ever seen, banana and plantain trees, orange trees, bamboo, etc. There were vendors along the side of the river. We bought a small bamboo replica of our raft from one of them. It was a great time!









Tuesday, we spent the day in Grand Cayman on Seven Mile Beach. It was sunny & hot with a few passing clouds. We had lounge chairs on the beach, but spent most of our time in the beautiful, clear water. This was the first time I had worn my maternity bathing suit. Here's an underwater belly picture for those of you who have been asking for one:









Wednesday was another day at sea and we enjoyed our usual at sea routine: breakfast in bed, the gym, the pool. We met a nice couple from Oregon who were beginning their own journey with infertility. Being able to share our experience helped me realize how thankful I am for where we are now and the things we learned, the people we met, and those who supported us through our journey.
Thursday, we arrived in Cozumel and received bad news from home. Tony called to tell us that Grandma Medley had passed away. Luckily, the funeral was scheduled for the weekend and we would be able to attend. This was the first moment this week where we really wanted to be home. Scott and I took a little time to process the news and then felt ready to go on shore. I picked out a pair of shorts to wear, but they didn't fit even though they fit before the cruise! So, I wore maternity shorts! Although Cozumel was nothing like we remembered from 10 years ago, it was lovely. The people were very friendly and the environment was festive. We rented a jeep and drove all around the island. This was the perfect adventure for the day and being in the jeep reminded us of Kauai! We saw the beaches and ended up stopping at San Gervasio to see Mayan ruins.









Friday was our last day at sea. Today, I began the day with a head, neck, foot, and ankle massage...it was very relaxing and felt wonderful. Then we had breakfast in bed and went to the pool. It was a pretty windy and a little too cool for the pool, but we enjoyed sitting in chairs beside the pool. We got a lot of sun today which was nice.
This trip turned out to be more than we had even imagined. During those moments of silence or when we took naps, we'd look at each other and say "remember this moment". We treasure these experiences we've had before kids and look forward to sharing new experiences with our children. We're sure vacations from now on may not be this relaxing, but we are sure they'll also be ones we'll never forget.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Naps and flutters

Naps...they're wonderful.  It's nice when you're pregnant because you never feel guilty about a nap.  I just wish I could slip them in on work days.   It's really been fun watching things progress.  Seeing friends that we haven't seen in a week or so and hearing them say "I see babies!" is a lot of fun.  For the first time in my life, I don't mind having an enlarged stomach.  I will also announce...I'm okay with people touching my stomach now because you can actually feel the babies and it's not just flab from the previous meal!!  

I can't wait to feel more than just "flutters" when the babies move.  The other day, I believe it was baby A kept brushing up to an internal organ that had never been touch before.  It was cute at first, but after 12+ hours it became annoying.  I pushed on the area, laid on my opposite side, and even shook my hips to the opposite side trying to convince the baby to move.  By the next day, things had shifted and it was gone...thank goodness!